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Mum of 1

I moved out of London a couple of years ago and all my friends are still there. They want to meet my baby but they expect us to go to London to meet them all. I don't know how they expect me and a baby to go for a trip to meet them when they could visit us here and they don't have kids! Does anyone feel the same?

I was in the same situation. I invited all my friends over and they never came. I went back to my old city once and met with one friend who promised she'd visit me at my place (she never did). My advice is: invite them and tell them the truth that you don't want to go to London with a baby. You could use Covid as an excuse, or breastfeeding, or don't feel the need to justify yourself at all!

Mum of 1